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Writer's pictureMark A Preston

The Power of Offering Small Gifts to Build Customer Relationships

Updated: Oct 24

When Hannah launched her specialist online tea and coffee retail business, she was determined to offer her customers something more than just quality products. She had spent years curating the finest blends, from rare single-origin coffees to exquisite loose-leaf teas, but she knew that success in a crowded market would depend on more than just what she sold. It would depend on how she connected with her customers.


Specialist online tea and coffee retailer

At first, Hannah focused on delivering excellent service and beautiful packaging. While these efforts were appreciated, she wanted her customers to feel a stronger connection to her brand—something that would keep them coming back and sharing their experience with others. That’s when she decided to try something simple yet meaningful: offering small gifts with every order.


What Hannah didn’t expect was how powerful this small gesture would become in building long-lasting customer relationships.


The Thought Behind the Gift


Hannah understood that, as an online retailer, she couldn’t replicate the in-person experience of browsing a shop, chatting with staff, or sampling products. What she could do, however, was add a personal touch to every order. She wanted her customers to feel valued, not just another transaction in her online shop. That’s when she had the idea to include a small, complimentary gift with each order.


The gifts weren’t extravagant—just a sample of a new tea blend, a small bag of coffee beans, or a beautiful tea infuser—but they were always carefully chosen. Each gift came with a handwritten note thanking the customer for their order and offering a little story about the product. For example, with a packet of rare Assam tea, she might include a note saying, "This tea comes from a small family-run estate in India, where it’s handpicked at the peak of the season. I hope you enjoy this special blend as much as I do."


Hannah wanted her customers to feel like they were receiving more than they had ordered—something unexpected, thoughtful, and personal.


How Small Gestures Create a Big Impact


It didn’t take long for Hannah to start seeing the impact of her small gifts. Customers were not only leaving glowing reviews but also sharing photos of their orders on social media, tagging her business, and commenting on how much they loved the surprise gift. What Hannah found most exciting, though, was how many customers were returning for a second order.


One particular customer, who had initially placed a small order of loose-leaf tea, received a complimentary sample of a rare Ethiopian coffee with their delivery. A few days later, the same customer returned to the website to place a larger order, not just of the original tea but also of the Ethiopian coffee. In a review, they mentioned how the unexpected sample had made them feel special and encouraged them to try something they wouldn’t have otherwise considered.


Hannah quickly realised that these small gifts were doing more than just adding a nice touch—they were creating memorable experiences. Customers felt valued and appreciated, which in turn built their loyalty to her brand. This personal connection set her business apart from larger, impersonal competitors.


Building Customer Relationships Through Thoughtfulness


The key to Hannah’s success with small gifts wasn’t just the gift itself—it was the thoughtfulness behind it. She made sure that each gift was relevant to the customer’s order and taste preferences, which made it feel personal. If someone ordered a bag of bold, strong coffee, she would include a sample of a rich, complementary tea or another bold coffee they might enjoy. This attention to detail showed that she wasn’t just sending out random items; she was thinking about what would genuinely delight her customers.


This level of care built trust and reinforced the idea that Hannah’s business was about more than just selling products—it was about sharing a passion for tea and coffee. Customers began to associate her brand with warmth, generosity, and a personal touch, which led to stronger customer retention and more word-of-mouth recommendations.


Why Small Gifts Work for Small Businesses


Hannah’s experience shows that offering small gifts can be a powerful tool for building customer relationships, especially for small businesses. The key is not in the cost or size of the gift but in the thoughtfulness behind it. Customers are more likely to feel connected to your brand when they feel valued, and small, personalised gestures go a long way in making that connection.


For small business owners, it’s important to remember that these gestures aren’t about upselling or pushing more products—they’re about building trust and showing appreciation. When customers feel like they’ve received something extra, something that wasn’t expected, it creates a positive emotional connection. This makes them more likely to return, recommend your business to others, and even become loyal advocates.


The Long-Term Impact of Building Customer Relationships


What surprised Hannah the most was how these small gestures didn’t just lead to repeat business—they fostered long-term loyalty. Customers who had initially come to her website out of curiosity were now returning regularly, not just because they loved her products but because they felt personally connected to her brand.


One loyal customer, after receiving multiple orders with different surprise gifts, sent Hannah a message: "I feel like I’m part of a special community. It’s rare to find a business that makes you feel like more than just a customer. Thank you for always adding that personal touch—it keeps me coming back."


These relationships didn’t just grow her business—they created a community of loyal customers who shared her brand with their friends, left positive reviews, and kept coming back for more.


Ready to Build Stronger Customer Relationships?


If Hannah’s story resonates with you and you’re ready to start building stronger customer relationships through thoughtful gestures, it’s time to take action. Mark A Preston, THE Customer Growth Coach & Speaker, can help you develop strategies that connect with your customers on a deeper level. With Mark’s coaching and training, you’ll learn how to create meaningful, personalised experiences that drive loyalty and long-term growth. Contact Mark today and start offering small gestures that lead to big results for your business.

About the author

Mark A Preston - Customer Growth Coach & Speaker

Mark A Preston is a Customer Growth Coach and Speaker, helping small businesses grow through simple, effective strategies. Since 2001, Mark has unlocked over 1 million new customers for SMEs and his coaching, training, and talks equip businesses with the tools to attract more customers and scale successfully with the right mindset. Discover how Mark can help unlock your business’s potential.

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